Ted’s 2nd Birthday Fundraiser ✨

Red Set Go

We're fundraising to save little lives this August!

Family and friends,

Each year in honour of our baby Ted I plan to fundraise for a charity that supports those impacted by stillbirth. With Ted’s 2nd birthday coming up on the 1st, I am taking part in Red Nose’s 3km a day in August challenge.

Whilst many associate Red Nose with SIDS, you may not know that they also support crucial research of stillbirth and provide support for anyone affected by the death of a child.

The Red Nose annual report for 2023 (Ted’s birth year) states that across the year, 2709 babies under 1 died — 1751 of those babies were stillborn. Additionally, 50% of stillbirths that occur in the last weeks of an otherwise healthy pregnancy have no known cause.

When Teddy unexpectedly and suddenly died, Toby and I were flooded with devastating, time-sensitive and complex decisions no parent should have to make. Yet here we were, some within minutes of receiving the news:

“We need to discuss how you will deliver him and the implications it may have on future pregnancies.”
—I can’t tell you how far a future pregnancy was from our minds.

“We need to think about whether you would like an autopsy performed; it might give us answers that will help in the future.”
—It felt cruel and useless that any answers wouldn’t help Ted.

“You will need to appoint a funeral director who will collect him from the hospital.”
—Leaving the hospital without him felt incomprehensible.

“I don’t want any of this.”
—I desperately responded to them all.

I was fortunate that our incredible team at The SAN was equipped to guide us through these soul-crushing decisions. But on this journey, I have learned not all bereaved parents are afforded the same knowledge and care.

The resources that Red Nose provides to hospitals and parents have life-altering impacts — guidelines and support that I sincerely hope you will never need, and research to bring avoidable stillbirth numbers to 0.

So, please consider donating to this worthy cause and wish our baby Ted a happy 2nd birthday in the stars.

Megan
xxx

Thank you to our Sponsors

$1.02k

Samantha Ruthven

So proud of you. Love you guys

$515

D+m

$500

Megan Anderson

$245

Dollar Match

$211

Jarrod, Cherie & Family

$211

Jamie, Christina, Willow And Harper

We love you little Ted xx

$211

C & J & H

So much love for you guys and our little Teddy ♥️

$200

Aunty Amie And Uncle Greg

We love you Ted, today and everyday. May vital research help other families avoid this senseless and cruel loss.

$158

Kirby Campbell

Beautiful words, and such an important cause. My mamma lost my sister to SIDS, Red Nose Day is emotional for so many. I’m proud to hear of their research and support for stillbirths too. Happy birthday Ted xx

$158

Cazza And Greg

Well done girls-what a great thing you’re doing. Sending lots of love x

$158

Prager Cousins

Happy 2nd birthday to our beautiful Ted - the brightest star in the sky!! Xx

$158

James & Claire

$158

Georgia Kersten

$158

Dollar Match

$111

Alicia Wagner

Happy Birthday Teddy, love you today and everyday 🩵🧸

$111

Anonymous

What a special cause Em and Lara and such a beautiful way to continue honouring Teddy ❤️

$111

Kim Barton

$111

Liss, Jimmy, Emi And Oli

Happy Birthday Teddy 🩵 Sending much love to you and your beautiful family,

$111

Brett Piler

Well done Amie, great cause

$111

Sean & Lara

$111

Ben, Lucy And Gracie Scott

The kids kicked in this week’s pocket money and we matched it. Benny wants to know how many steps he can do for you? What a great cause and a lovely way to honour Teddy xxx

$108

Tony & Aileen Kersten

“Isn’t that right Dad!” “Yes that’s right Darling!” and so is this wonderful cause and your participation in it. Love You, Toby, Teddy and Henry to the stars and back Dad & Mum 💖💖💖💖

$106

Cassy Mcnally

Happy birthday baby Ted 🩵🩵

$106

Kirsty

What a beautiful post. If you want a walking buddy some days we would be happy to join.

$106

Alison & Oliver

Happy 2nd Birthday Ted

$63

Courtney

Happy 2nd birthday Ted 🧸 A lucky boy with wonderful parents xx

$53

Annemarie Cooke

Such an important cause and beautiful way to honour Ted xx

$53

Jane Baird

$53

Daniela Miesch

So proud of you girls for supporting this very special cause!!!

$53

Lachlan & Lillian

$53

Bev Smith

Love you Meg. What a wonderful fundraiser 🫶🏻 xx

$53

Aili Pank

With love for Teddy and family 💖

$53

Maddie

Go girls <33

$53

Zac Brown

Hope you have some good running shoes lol

$53

Levi And Max Xx

Happy 2nd Birthday to our friend Ted!

$53

Aunty Amie

$53

Dollar Match

$53

Janyne

$53

Emma Farrell

Happy Birthday to Teddy

$53

Ryan And Carlee Bailey

What a great cause 💞 Happy running girls! So proud of you!!!!

$53

Anonymous

$53

Anonymous

A lovely tribute to your baby cousin Teddy, Lara and Em and a great cause for families of babies born forever sleeping…..🥰

$53

Anonymous

$53

Tahlee Arthur

$53

Em And Lara

For our beautiful baby Teddy x

$53

Dollar Match

$53

Charlotte Burrell

$53

Zane Capovilla

$53

Trisha And Lloyd

Happy birthday Teddy, sending lots of love to you all.

$53

Brooke Capovilla

$53

Zara Cunningham

$53

Hannah Longton

$53

Miranda Pietrasanta

Sending birthday wishes for baby Ted ❤️❤️

$50

Khabi R

A beautiful couple championing a cause not spoken enough about - kudos to you

$50

Lauren And Leni

$42

Laura Edwards

Happy 2nd Birthday, Ted 💙 In honour of your little Ted. You’re doing something truly meaningful and special.

$32

Kate De Bree

Happy 2nd birthday to Ted. A very worthy cause. Xxx

$32

Mia Brady

Go girls❤️

$32

Julia Cochrane

$32

Anna Mcgown

Happy 2nd birthday Ted ❤️ ❤️❤️

$32

Tazman

$32

Keeara Byrnes

Happy Birthday Ted ❤️

$32

Erin, Rob & Bennett

Beautiful Teddy, happy 2nd birthday! 🩵 Megan, Toby and Henry endless love to you all, amazing words, amazing cause xxxxx

$32

Cheryl

Big love to you all x

$32

Bronagh Harvey

$32

Bev Roos

$32

Dale Bailey

$32

Joanne Meehan

Proud if you Amie Its a big effort

$32

Hannah And Andrew Lloyd

Happy 2nd Birthday Teddy!

$32

Lindz

Happy Birthday Ted xx

$32

Izzy Turley

$32

K&l Sadler

Sending our love x

$32

Athena

$32

Kandyce Mehana

❤️‍🩹xo

$30

Gabrielle Harradine

Happy birthday in the stars, Ted xxx

$30

Isabella Baird